30 before 30
It’s my birthday! Last year I decided to take a break from any kind of annual goal setting, but seeing a wave of 30 before 30 lists recently has me wanting to join in. Considering I only have a year to get this stuff done I made sure to throw in some relatively simple things that can be achieved on an ideal day at the spur of the moment… but I’m definitely also lumping in the big stuff and the “stretch goals” that I’m not 100% sure I can get done in the next 12 months.
I promise these add up to 30... don't have enough time this evening to fix that formatting issue!
Guiding Principles (At least that sounds nice as a title here)
- Share Better
This blog is part of this and I have another goal pertaining to the blog later, but I do want to take a hard look at my social media use in the next year and cut back to only he things I really care for and realistically have the time for. The other half of this trying to be a little bit more authentic and honest when things aren’t going so hot— I hate the “highlight reel” aspect of social media and I figure starting with myself is a good enough way to effect change.
- Let Go
I feel like this is a cliche in terms of goals. And this isn’t a “let go of all the haters” thing (ha!). It’s more about getting rid of versions of myself that are not remotely realistic. I could probably be a marathon runner if I wanted to… but I do not have the time or dedication to pursue that goal at the moment. That sort of thing. The bright side to this is that it frees up mental energy toward working on the things I really do want to work on, so I don’t really consider this a negative thing.
- Work Deeply
I recently finished Cal Newport’s Deep Work, I’ve been paying attention to how I work and get things done, and I’ve realized just how distracted I am all the time. And I think it’s a huge part of the reason I’ve been a little frustrated with my ability to get things done at work and at home. It’s seriously difficult for me to commit to doing one task for an entire hour without giving in to some kind of distraction (text messages, running off to do something else that popped into my head, etc). So I definitely want to work on improving my ability to focus for long periods of time over the course of the next year.
The Big Things that I’m not totally sure I can afford to do
- Leave the country
I could totally cop out and go to Canada, but where this is a bit of a stretch is that I’m thinking more like Europe or Asia. It’d be a very bare bones, travel on the cheap trip, but I’m thinking I can squeeze just enough money out of my budget to do it.
- Buy myself a new lens
The one lens I’ve never had and have pretty much always wanted is a nice macro lens. I love the tiny details in things and I’d love to really be able to capture some of that. But looking at what I can afford in a year, this is a definite maybe for now.
The Big Things I’m pretty confident I can do
- Reading Challenge
I’ve REALLY been enjoying reading lately, having rediscovered the magic of libraries and reading books for free. I’m going to write about this in depth later on but I have a somewhat aggressive but realistic goal set for myself and kind of a fun “curriculum” to follow.
- Run a 10k
So I’m publicly holding myself accountable for this one in particular. My sister, Jenna, and I are tentatively planning on taking on the Big Ten 10k in Chicago next summer. And… I need to actually start training for that.
- Finish another #The100DayProject or 30 Day Challenge
I managed to start and finish one this year and I enjoyed it, even when I was annoyed with myself, so I’d like to challenge myself to another creative stretch at some point.
- Go out of state
Assuming I actually do the Big Ten 10k this should be easily achievable, so…
- Go out of state
I’m planning on trying to do that at least twice next year.
- Half Moon Pose
I want to start regularly practicing yoga— I’m a little bit hooked after taking a class through U-M this semester. I’m going to take another next semester if I can, and there are three poses I want to either actually balance well in or be able to hold for any length of time, starting with half moon…
- Crow Pose
And this one…
- Bird of Paradise
And this one!
- Learn some animation skills
This is partially for work but I do want to challenge myself to learn some new software next year since I feel like it’s been awhile since I really challenged myself in this area.
- Build the portfolio side of this site
But for real this time. I feel like this was definitely one of my annual goals a couple years ago, but considering I have everything set up and I just need to add things, this should be doable now, ha.
- “KonMari” my computer
This might be cheating since I’ve already finished the easier part of this, but yes, as lame as it is to say, I do kind of like applying the “only keep what sparks joy” method to my life and I’ve yet to do this to a bunch of files on my computer.
- Get into a regular sleep schedule
30-year-old’s should have regular sleep schedules, right? I want to do this for more than just that reason, but I do find it funny that I’m really wanting this on the eve of “old age”
- Schedule/Review my days and weeks
I’ve recently started doing “Weekly Reviews” as it pertains to both work and personal projects and it’s been so helpful to me that I want to try to push that even further and try to get into the habit of planning my days out a little more intentionally.
- 50 blog posts
This goes back to my first goal/intention— I want to work on writing a little bit more. And sharing better. And really, just documenting the stuff that I’m accomplishing so that I can look back on them and feel better about how I’m spending my time. I’ve learned if I can’t do that I tend to feel like I’ve done nothing even when I know that’s not true.
- 50 postcards
I still love Postcrossing but I tend to slip into periods of sending cards and then going a few weeks where I don’t. So I’d like to send roughly one a week next year.
- 25 movies
Another thing I love doing and rarely get around to doing on a regular basis. I’ve got a list that’s years-old that I want to make a dent in.
- 12 photos that I love enough to frame
This is the easier of my photography goals and I do want it to end with actually getting some photos printed and framed for my apartment.
- Have another dinner party or two
I hosted two potluck dinners at my apartment this past year and I want to keep up with this because it was a blast both times!
- Hang out more with Misty (my bird)
I mean, he’s like my child, I should definitely be able to carve out more time to actively playing with him.
- Try out a new art technique or two
My friend Lindsey and I have been scheming up some ideas in this arena and I’m excited to finally try them.
- Visit the DIA (or other art museum!)
I go way too long between DIA trips and that’s dumb because I only live like 45 minutes away.
- Picnic in the Arb
Or, as I’m typing this, really just a picnic anywhere in Ann Arbor would be kind of fun since I’m also envisioning the law quad.
- Go on a hike
This is very “stuff white people like,” but I’ve been wanting to do another hike since my trip to the Adirondacks a couple summers ago
- Visit a beach
This is also no small thing, even though Michigan is full of beaches. I’ve definitely gone entire summers without seeing a beach before and that’s just sad. So I’m going to actively prevent that.
- Plan something fun for my 30th Birthday
I don’t know what yet, but I never really plan things for my birthday and it would be fun to do something a little bit more involved for this milestone birthday that is the entire reason for the list.